While it’s essential to provide your fellow online daters with a close up photo of your face, so they can see what you look like, don’t leave it at that. People will want to know what your figure is like to determine whether or not they are physically attracted to you. Even if you’re overweight and aren’t confident about the way your body looks, it’s important to post a full body shot because it helps you weed out the duds.
When I started posting full body shots of myself, I received less messages and winks (because I’ve got some extra junk in the trunk, if you must know), but I also found that the men who actually contacted me were way more into me and didn’t just judge me by my pretty face. The guys who can’t handle my badunkadunk immediately click away when they see my full body shot, and that’s totally fine with me.
3. The self-shot photo
You might think it’s cheesy when people post pictures of themselves that they took by themselves with a cell phone camera, but self-shot photos (aka MySpace pics) get a lot of attention, according to stats. So, the next time you find yourself bored, alone, and with a camera in hand, pucker your lips and snap away. Who knows, your self-shot photo could end up getting way more attention than your professional-looking photos. My experiment with a quintessential MySpace pic got me tons of messages, albeit of the wrong variety. Somehow, people seem to associate MySpace pics with loose morals. Sorry, boys, but you’re in the wrong neighborhood!
4. Photo of yourself from the waist up
Many people will be viewing your photos in thumbnail size, so try to include at least one photo of yourself from the waist up in your selection. Full body photos don’t show nearly enough detail, but close-up photos of your face don’t show viewers what your body looks like. Photos of you from the waist up are a good compromise. Most people will want to see a photo of you from the waist up at the very least, probably to check and make sure that you are not fat. So, suck up your gut and say cheese!